We all go through these phases in life - we do things with eyes wide open. Both the brain and mind say "be careful" but we still do it. Regardless of how conscious we are of the reality to come we still go ahead with "Eyes Wide Open".
I believe that this is not because we are mentally less competent to make a decision it is probably due to our inherent nature. Such actions define what we are and what values make us.
Probably situations which compell us to rethink about our relationships, where we think we had raw deal at the end of a relationship, it is best to let go and remind ourselves that we lived byh our values. We lived with what we believed in even if it was not mutually respected or so we feel.
Life is too big - in experiences and relationships. What is more important is that we know what we believe in and stick to it. Relationships come and go. If it is worth it it will survive if not you at least gave it your honest best.
One does not need to have a strong positive state of mind all the time to be happy, at times when you can not be positive you can be neutral and thus being negative.
I believe that this is not because we are mentally less competent to make a decision it is probably due to our inherent nature. Such actions define what we are and what values make us.
Probably situations which compell us to rethink about our relationships, where we think we had raw deal at the end of a relationship, it is best to let go and remind ourselves that we lived byh our values. We lived with what we believed in even if it was not mutually respected or so we feel.
Life is too big - in experiences and relationships. What is more important is that we know what we believe in and stick to it. Relationships come and go. If it is worth it it will survive if not you at least gave it your honest best.
One does not need to have a strong positive state of mind all the time to be happy, at times when you can not be positive you can be neutral and thus being negative.
